When Love Wins...

THE WANTED CHILD

Moral Schizophrenia Confuses Rights

by Chuck Colson

When Janet Sheikhan first discovered she was pregnant, she and her husband were thrilled.  But then, Janet received terrible news:  A test showed the baby was severely deformed.  On the advice of her doctor, Janet regretfully decided to have an abortion.

But when she asked to see her tiny aborted child, Janet was shocked to discover it was a perfectly-formed baby boy.  Later she read the autopsy report, which confirmed the baby had not been deformed but was perfectly healthy.

Janet was devastated to realize that because of a faulty medical test, she had aborted a perfectly normal baby.  And when her story was told on "60 Minutes", host Leslie Stahl shared her outrage.  The program focused on the mistaken test results, asking "Who is responsible for this tragedy?"  Stahl treated the mother - who is, after all, the one who made the abortion decision  as an innocent victim.

Of course, the bitter irony is that every day thousands of perfectly healthy babies are aborted - not by mistake, but deliberately and intentionally.  But programs like "60 Minutes" do not treat their deaths as a tragedy.  How is it that even thoughtful, well-educated Americans today exhibit such an astonishing moral schizophrenia?

The answer is that a baby's entire value is now defined by whether or not the parents want it.  The role of technology is merely to support whatever they choose.  Do they want a baby?  Fine.  Advanced reproductive technologies can be employed to help them.  Do they want to get rid of a baby?  Fine.  Abortion technology is standing by to meet their desires.  Neither choice may be pronounced wrong or immoral.

This radical moral relativism reveals how much Americans have become children of the enlightenment.  In the absence of a moral framework, all desires are considered equally valid, all equally legitimate.  without any overarching moral order, technology is merely an instrument to satisfy our impulses, whatever they may be.

That's why "60 Minutes" could not bring itself to address the real moral conundrum - which is why the death of Janet's baby was tragic while the deaths of thousands of health babies just like hers are a sign of liberation.  No, the only socially acceptable scapegoat was the failure of technology to fulfill someone's deeply felt desire.

Of course, it all begins with the assumption that a deformed child ought to be aborted in the first place - an assumption Christians everywhere ought to challenge.  One of my own colleagues was told that his unborn son might have the same genetic defect that Janet's baby was diagnosed with.  But, as Christians, he and his wife did not seek a technological escape.  Instead, they turned in trust to the One who is the Resurrection and the Life.

Just as in Janet's story, the diagnosis turned out to be mistaken.  But, unlike Janet, my colleague now has a healthy baby boy and does not face the wrenching responsibility having aborted his child in the search of the perfect baby.

Would that the Janets of this world understood that the real tragedy is not a malfunction of technology, it's a malfunction of our moral senses,  We have made machines of death - and, unfortunately, they work all too well.

 

REFERRALS

National Down Syndrome Congress
1370 Center Drive, Suite 102
Atlanta, GA  30338
800-232-NDSC
 
National Down Syndrome Society
666 Broadway, 8th Floor
New York, NY  10012-2317
800-221-4602
 
NATHHAN (National Challeneged Homeschoolers Associated Network)
P.O. Box 310
Moyie Springs, ID  83845
208-267-6246
 
CHASK (Christian Homes Adopting And Special Kids)
P.O. Box 310
Moyie Springs, ID  83845
208-208-6246
 
To find a prolife doctor in your area:
email:  info@applog.org
 
M.E.N.D.  (Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death)
P.O. Box 1007
Coppell, TX  75019
972-506-9000
 
Hannah's Prayer Ministries
P.O. Box 3321
Borger, TX  79008
281-485-8986
 
Perinatal Hospice
A perinatal hospice program provides supportive care for parents and their unborn child who has a fatal birth defect.  This care begins at the time of diagnosis, normally around 20 - 24 weeks gestation, and continues throughout the birth and death of the infant.  Bereavement support continues for two years or as long as necessary.  The hospice concept provides reassurance for parents that neither they not their infant will be abandoned, and that appropriate comfor care will be provided.

For a referral to a perinatal hospice, contact:

Miami Valley Women's Center
2345 W. Stroop Road
Dayton, OH  45439
937-298-2822